Pozf: yes you are absolutely right and thanks for pointing those things out. In the spirit of not talking behind people's backs (more), I'll drop it here. Plus you're right. I don't think she was a heartless bitch
at all. I thought maybe that's how she acted outwardly sometimes, or came across, maybe without intending to do so. I was trying to say that I can deal with people who are "aggressive conversationalists", but it sort of seemed like she wanted to be free from all responsibility for feelings created by her words, or people's interpretations of her words. And again, that's surely not what she was saying, but she'd kind of be like (paraphrasing) "I don't know you, therefore I didn't want your feedback and I don't want to give it much merit or thought." Now I personally don't have time to get to know people more deeply outside the forum, but I'm fairly me on here, so y'all know me pretty well if you care to, with the exception that I don't really post much about my children or my work, which actually make up the vast majority of my life, but are things I come here for a break from. Also, it takes me a lot before I'll give "feedback". I'm pretty allowing and accepting of different personalities I think. I like different personalities. Whoops I guess I didn't drop it as much as I meant to, or at all really. Sorry. I don't remember her admitting that she was unsympathetic or touchy though...Maybe I missed it.
Finally, sometimes I overreacted to one of her posts, because there was 3 or 4 before that that kind of bugged me that I hadn't said anything about.
Finally finally, if Deatzh were here now, I feel that I would have to pay dearly for these few posts by having them crammed up my ass sideways. But I guess that would really only be my interpretation of her response. Something I need to work on. I tend to hear everything my wife says as if she were yelling at me as well, if she tells me to come home early or something like that. Probably related.
But thanks again Pozf for pointing out the things I hadn't thought of, or had forgotten. Also me being wrong about her age. A year makes a big difference in that range (14-25 or so, maybe...)
Charles: What are you trying to say??
Are you trying to say I'm an a-hole who can't read right?? Cuz that's what it sounds like you're saying!
p-Fae: Thanks!
shadowfire: haha
Churba: is too hot for his pants
oddball: In this forum, only you could have possibly had that job at 15. that's awesome.