What don't you think is entirely natural? That I, for as long as I can remember have always loved two women at any given time or the custom of marriage and concept of exclusive monogamy?
the second part. Especially the part of about the expectation of never connecting emotionally with anyone else of the opposite sex EVER AGAIN! The monogamy makes more sense than that part.
I confess I know people who are married/have been married/and have just gotten married (different people!) who are still in open relationships, but are in a super loving committed relationship with each other all the same.
I confess that that's really awesome and makes me a little sad. I could never pull it off though and my family would think I was nuts so I will stop being jealous now.
Most all my friends have always been dudes, and it will always be that way, even when I'm in relationships with dudes. But it's because we're all just dudes, and play games and what not together (Oh god, am I gay? ;P )
haha. Best-looking gay dude I ever saw!
I am jealous of you though, Umber. Surrounded by hot asian women all day.
You should be. I'm going to go ahead and say that Taiwan has the highest percentage of hot women of any asian country. Well, no, I can't really say that for sure, but I prefer the Chinese look to the Thai or Cambodian or Vietnamese (also Malaysian, Indonesian, and whatever else I'm forgetting...Burmese also...), and Taiwanese girls tend to have better fashion sense (and nicer butts for some reason) than mainland Chinese imo, plus they're happier because they don't live under a weird communist regime with forced abortion and suppressed religious freedom, etc. Korean girls are really sexy too though
and I've never lived there so who knows Korea might win. Don't get me wrong though, Thai girls and Cambodian girls can be pretty ridiculously hot. I just think the percentages are in favor of Taiwan. I don't prefer Japanese faces in general, although I do think that the Japanese language sounds really sexy when women speak it. I've analyzed this way too much, apparently. Before I came here I couldn't even guess at what country an asian person decended from. But basically what I'm trying to convince you of is that you should come to Taiwan, and then we'll go out to the bars and hopefully you'll hook up with a Taiwanese girl (or several) and tell me about it. At the worst we'll go out and get drunk and you'll be amazed by the cuties. My wife would let me do that by the way. She's weird like that. She trusts me to go out, she just doesn't like me talking to other girls like on a regular basis, or something. I don't understand her logic entirely, but she knows that I love to go out and go crazy every now and then, and she's pretty good about letting me do the things I really love to do. Just not every day
By the way for those of you who like Asian culture and have time to kill or want a change, you can come over here and get a good job for a year or so like nothing. And people are really good, and the girls (or guys) will talk to you and some will want to hook up with you just because you're white/foreign. From what I hear it's a fun dating scene. And it's like WAY cheaper than Japan, and people are WAY nicer and more honest/upfront than in mainland China or even Thailand from what I hear. I've heard some great things about South Korea though, so again, they might win.
Touchy moment though, with your wife finding out about you posting on a forum?
Yeah I know, it's lame. I guess she feels threatened by me having emotional connection with anyone other than her (unless it's a guy). Like I said, it's not my favorite part of her. She's Berny like that. But she knows I'm flirty, so if I'm here I'm probably flirting with girls. But I'm not that bad, right? At least I make it clear I'm old and spoken for, so it's all in fun!
But, I'm a firm believer that being able to talk openly about things like sex is just about the healthiest thing you could do.
I try, I try. Usually we're pretty good about that, actually. We have fun. Our sex life is still awesome, don't get me wrong. It's pretty epic. We also have a lot of ground left to still explore in terms of roleplay, etc. We're pretty shy, so that will be fun when we get around to it. I've had people tell me before that the mind is the most important sexual organ.
Anyway. Much love! Continue fighting strong against those god damn toilet snakes! Protect yourself at all costs!
Appreciated! My sack appreciates your concern for its well-being!
sorry for the super-long post.