Indeed. I'm not sorry for her, I'm sorry that you had to come across that and have to feel that bad, since it's not your fault in any way.
I confess that I'm alright, really. Pain's just life's way of telling you "Well, that sucked, but hey, you're still here!"
I confess that you're right, it's not my fault in any way, as much as I beat myself up about it sometimes.
I confess I should probably listen to razzly more often, she has much wise.