People who use words like Hun, dear, sweetie etc towards people they have no right (this isn't the correct word but I can't think of the correct one right now) to be using it to, Especially during some kind of argument.
You come off as so completely arrogant and condescending it makes my head spin, for those of you who aren't trying to do so you Are. and for those of you who think using a term of endearment makes you making an asshole point seem less assholeish, It really doesn't it makes it worse, and you're only fooling yourself.
Every time I hear, "Oh it's ok Hun, I got it." even when a person is being 100% nice and kind, you STILL sound like a total condescending prick.
I have Much less problem with those in the just above line, we all have a little arrogance that comes out some how. BUT if you use it in an arguement? shut the fuck up, it always comes with a tone, I'd rather be called a stupid fuck during an argument *even if that person is SO completely wrong* because at least then that person is being up fucking front about it, and not trying to hide it behind a wall that's so fucking thin it doesn't exist. You aren't fooling anybody. Man up, or shut the fuck up. Quit hiding behind utter bullshit.