I need money for shcool!
Any advice would be apreciated!
That's no mental problem! *boots Ronin in the ass*
just felt like you needed a boot in the ass, actually, sorry.
Pozf: the chloroform thing made me lol.
Deatzh: yeah, what they said, more or less. Think less if possible, and be your normal self. If you have happy nervous feelings, he might be reciprocating. If you have awkward feelings, he may not. (says the guy who believes that interpersonal energy is something we can sense) Either way, there are a myriad of variables that can come into play on any given day, so might as well take it slow and see how it goes over time. On the other hand, when the time is right, (if it ever is) hopefully you'll know it and jump in with both feet. Either way, thinking too much and acting like a dork as a result isn't going to help. If you can act natural and just be, it should make it that much easier to read the situation anyway, since both of you will relax more.
No easy feat I know...or maybe it is, since relaxation is key!
edit: by the way, I have only heard rumors of this being actually possible. Well no, I've managed it once or twice, only through repeatedly forcing myself to relax, but it
is harder for intelligent people I think.
Kaeoden: yep. Yep I have definitely had that feeling before.