Yeah I'm just not sure if I support monogamy as a natural human condition, while I do believe the best way to be a whole, healthy, complete, and powerful person is to live within one's nature.
Something like that anyway.
I feel like relationships are psychologically healthier in small doses. Life is more about our relationship to ourselves than our faithfulness to another. For a free bird to be caged in the spirit of "love", which is really just another word for "need" or at least codependency, seems more like a tragedy to me.
But having said all that, I probably would have made the same choice, so *shrug*. In fact, I made almost that same choice in my life, with some differences, but very similar. So I hope it works out for May because maybe that means there's hope for me. But in the end, I have to say I was happier and healthier when I was single. What I gained is a sense of purpose and commitment, but those feel more like heavy weights to bear than sources of great happiness. *shrug* I dunno, I have mixed feelings...
edit: no, I shouldn't say I have mixed feelings...I have thoughts that tell me that I'm better off being a productive, upstanding, normal, whatever, member of society. My feelings pretty much hate it all the time, even though I do love my SO.