Author Topic: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse  (Read 87228 times)

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #150 on: July 10, 2009, 03:57:46 pm »
Maybe someone dropped him? That'd be sad.  :(

By the way, do often agree with/placate people when you've no idea what they're talking about?  :-\

Also I thought the whole point of S&M was erotic jollies, what's the deal with putting the whole the punishment thing in there?  ???
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« Reply #151 on: July 10, 2009, 04:00:56 pm »
By the way, do often agree with/placate people when you've no idea what they're talking about?  :-\

Was that question directed at me?

No I just give my best shot at an answer.
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« Reply #152 on: July 10, 2009, 04:05:39 pm »
Wasn't an insult, just an observation.

I get it. Kinda.
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« Reply #153 on: July 10, 2009, 04:06:39 pm »
Don't worry I didn't think it was, it does seem like I do that a lot doesn't it ...
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« Reply #154 on: July 10, 2009, 04:30:37 pm »
Should be careful about it becuase if you aren't people may think you are arrogant know-it-all.

That's why I try to admit stupidity from time to time, to try to stay humble.

Also, nonsequiters are fun and cute. :-*
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« Reply #155 on: July 10, 2009, 04:35:47 pm »
Should be careful about it becuase if you aren't people may think you are arrogant know-it-all.

That's why I generally will say that I'm not sure or don't know, I like my educated guesses... But I totally am a arrogant know-it-all.

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« Reply #156 on: July 10, 2009, 04:48:18 pm »
Should be careful about it becuase if you aren't people may think you are arrogant know-it-all.

That's why I generally will say that I'm not sure or don't know, I like my educated guesses... But I totally am a arrogant know-it-all.

Sorry to keep thread jacking

Yeah. You're pretty good at that.
These threads should pay you good money.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #157 on: July 13, 2009, 12:36:52 am »
Maybe someone dropped him? That'd be sad.  :(

As long as it wasnt from the top of a building...

Also I thought the whole point of S&M was erotic jollies, what's the deal with putting the whole the punishment thing in there?  ???

Different things for different people...

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #158 on: July 14, 2009, 07:34:09 am »
A sub drop is the after effects when you feel really low after having a session. and it been a long time since I was Dommed
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« Reply #159 on: July 14, 2009, 11:47:17 pm »
why?  :(
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« Reply #160 on: July 15, 2009, 10:28:03 am »
Let me elaborate my last post.


I'm sorry you're feeling low. :(

Why would someone get depressed after a session? Is it becuase they're mean to you? Is it becuase it's so exillerating and hot that normal life is dull by comparison? Is it becuase you like the people and miss them?

Why haven't you been topped, Odd? Are you scared? Are you upset? Just haven't been able to fit it into your schedual?
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« Reply #161 on: August 06, 2009, 10:01:10 am »
Why would someone get depressed after a session? Is it becuase they're mean to you? Is it becuase it's so exillerating and hot that normal life is dull by comparison? Is it becuase you like the people and miss them?

questions seconded...

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #162 on: August 06, 2009, 10:05:06 am »
Definition: SubDrop is the emotional drop that submissives feel at some point shortly after their last scene with their dominant.

Time Frame: A few hours to a few days... Experience of talking to different subs leads me to believe an average of three days.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #163 on: August 11, 2009, 04:59:42 am »
Ok who renamed this thread and made me scan through a couple of pages before thinking.. "hang on a mo I've read all this before". What's worse is the third post in the thread is mine and it didnt twig!

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« Reply #164 on: August 11, 2009, 05:21:06 am »
Why would someone get depressed after a session? Is it becuase they're mean to you? Is it becuase it's so exillerating and hot that normal life is dull by comparison? Is it becuase you like the people and miss them?

questions seconded...

It's not any of those things, says my research.
Like any other depression, it is caused by the chemicals in your body. Perhaps the session was a little too intense and caused an overpowering rush of hormones, perhaps the Dom neglected the aftercare a little...

Have you heard of people what have started crying and felt terrible during a massage? Same thing here. You push the body a little extra, get a rush of hormones and bad things go to the surface.

One way to help a subdrop is for the Dom to make sure the aftercare is -good- and -long- and that the sub feels loved, comforted and safe after a session. One might want to take a break from sessions as well, to let the sub recover.

I'm not supposed to know thi stuff. D': What's wrong with me?

EDIT: There is also a thing opposite of Subdrop called "subspace."
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #165 on: August 11, 2009, 07:59:48 am »
Well, maybe you have latent urges Razzly, the kind of urges some of us are already acting on for ourselves ;) :P

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #166 on: August 11, 2009, 03:16:34 pm »
I've read that this "sub drop" of which you speak is caused by doms who don't end the sessions well in terms of keeping the sub comfortable, so the sub can feel unsafe, ill-respected, etc.
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #167 on: August 11, 2009, 06:38:46 pm »
Ok who renamed this thread and made me scan through a couple of pages before thinking.. "hang on a mo I've read all this before". What's worse is the third post in the thread is mine and it didnt twig!
yeah that was me guy sorry.  This name is more fun I think.  Something I always meant to do but for some reason never did.

haha though!

and...yeah I'm gonna have to say Razzly was way more informative than Oddball.  Thanks Razz.  And what's wrong with knowing that stuff!?  You're European!  (j/k)

...does seem like BDSM is way more popular/common in Europe though...

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #168 on: August 11, 2009, 07:44:35 pm »
So here's a random question of the sort this thread encourages:
How old can you be and still have an imaginary friend?

What if she's really hot?
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #169 on: August 11, 2009, 07:46:49 pm »
Anybody, any age, anytime. As long as you don't allow it interfere with your life nobody can do anything.

... But what do imaginary friends have to do with BDSM?
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #170 on: August 11, 2009, 07:51:23 pm »
Everything if it's something they like to do a lot.
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #171 on: August 11, 2009, 07:57:26 pm »
... Huh?

BDSM is a compound acronym Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission,  and sadism/masochism. As I'm sure you all know, I still don't understand how imaginary people fall under any one of those even through the most strenuous of interpretations.

I'm not trying to be a jackass here, it does read that way I know, but I'm just trying to comprehend this.
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #172 on: August 11, 2009, 11:57:12 pm »
I assume Imaginary friend = imaginary BDSM partner I would guess. Which is fine if you've had plenty of experience with real people, but possibly not if you havent as you MAY assign them what would be atypical responses and as a result when you get a real parter put it into practice in an unsafe or unsatisfying way.... As long as when you get a real experience you know that you still know nothing it'll be ok.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #173 on: May 27, 2010, 12:32:21 pm »
Well been awhile since any one has posted here.  Have not been practising lately due to personal troubles meaning I lost touch with my Mistress (think She has given up on me) so have signed up to go to a munch with a local group.
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« Reply #174 on: May 27, 2010, 12:50:28 pm »
I've been thinking about heading up to York Munch, I don't see those guys often - hopefully I can catch them again before I leave the UK, I miss them.

Edit - Also, FUCK the leeds munch. Seriously, it's cliquey, elitist, and aggravating, everyone just bundles into tiny little groups and ignores everyone else, rather than mingling and having fun with everyone. Had-a-fucking-nuff
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« Reply #175 on: May 27, 2010, 01:10:20 pm »
Heh, well. I can't ever say my life is boring. Been plenty active, but somewhat recently stopped playing regularly with my favorite sub. :(

And I'm always experimenting with artsy bondage...

Been invited to some fetish groups/clubs/nights around here but have been too busy anyway. And Churba... As far as cliquey and elitist goes, that's extremely hard to avoid in the scene.

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« Reply #176 on: May 27, 2010, 01:24:46 pm »
been meaning to go to this munch for a while since its bascily on my door step and have joined the group on line but with other commitments have not been able to go. And now that I have things stable again feel like getting back into the scene once more.  Does not help my First (and so far only Mistress) still has a few of my things if i get taken on by a new Mistress.
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« Reply #177 on: May 27, 2010, 01:26:12 pm »
been meaning to go to this munch for a while since its bascily on my door step and have joined the group on line but with other commitments have not been able to go. And now that I have things stable again feel like getting back into the scene once more.  Does not help my First (and so far only Mistress) still has a few of my things if i get taken on by a new Mistress.

I feel you there. Repeat purchases are the story of my life.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #178 on: May 27, 2010, 01:45:32 pm »
Well the two floggers I had have seen plenty of use, one was falling apart and She borrowed the spare.  While spending a day in London with my sister after i got back from Russia found the adult toy shop nearby and made a "few" purchases.
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #179 on: May 27, 2010, 01:54:43 pm »
And Churba... As far as cliquey and elitist goes, that's extremely hard to avoid in the scene.
You're preaching to the choir.