Author Topic: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse  (Read 61584 times)

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #60 on: May 09, 2009, 06:28:01 pm »
Have I killed this topic or something?
Come on, it was fun, don't leave me alone here you guys... :(
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #61 on: May 09, 2009, 06:32:13 pm »
No you didn't kill it.

It just goes in waves of off and on. Somebody will say something eventually.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #62 on: May 10, 2009, 06:23:02 am »
ok Q for you all who in here thinks they are either a Dom, submissive or a switch( Dom and sub depending on who they are with)?
What good is dreaming it if you don't actually do it?.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #63 on: May 10, 2009, 06:39:52 am »
Yeah... I'm a sub in denial, I guess.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #64 on: May 10, 2009, 11:21:51 am »
Neither, I'm just sadistic with some masochist streaks but don't enjoy the dominance bits at all.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #65 on: May 10, 2009, 01:45:29 pm »
I'm most likely a switch.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #66 on: May 10, 2009, 01:55:39 pm »
You guys should know I'm very much a Dom and a sadist.

I've tied people up in utterly non-sexual situations, so it's not necessarily a sexual thing. But it certainly can become one. ;P

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #67 on: May 10, 2009, 02:30:22 pm »
I couldn't really call myself anything.

I suppose you could call me a sadist, as I enjoy the suffering of others, but I like it to be "for reals" and not with anyone I like.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #68 on: May 11, 2009, 10:24:20 am »
Yeah I think that's pretty much the definition of sadist.

I guess I'm a switch, but I only sub for Akasha ;)

...*can't imagine tying up being non-sexual, or at least how it could come up outside of kids playing cops n' robbers or whatever game*

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #69 on: May 11, 2009, 10:51:22 am »
Do you get tied up often, Ronin? :3

No. That's the problem.

And I'm Bottomtastic!  :D

YAY Bottoms!  :D
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #70 on: May 11, 2009, 11:26:13 am »
YAY Bottoms!  :D
Seconded!

but are we talking about the same kind of bottoms? ::)

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #71 on: May 11, 2009, 11:29:45 am »
Ah so you sub but still tell the Dom what to do Ronin?
What good is dreaming it if you don't actually do it?.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #72 on: May 11, 2009, 11:57:57 am »
@UIS: As upposed to "Top".

It never really has happend yet.

I just fantasise occasionally.  :-[

Hmmm... "Topping from the Bottom" you mean?  :-\
I don't know... I hope not. I mean I don't think the if the scene was set I would, but I would want to discusses the specifics of the senario beforehand.
It is supposed to be a dick move to do that anyway. 

But the whole "RAWR! DO THIS NOW SLAVE!" thing seems a little scary. I think I want to be *seduced* in to bottoming.

Yes, I'm a wierdo.  :o
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #73 on: May 11, 2009, 12:07:23 pm »
@UIS: As upposed to "Top".
oh :( I thought we meant pajama bottoms.

Yes, I'm a wierdo.  :o
thank goodness for that!

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #74 on: May 11, 2009, 01:53:02 pm »
I tie up those who like being tied up for the sake of tying them up and there's nothing sexual about it :P

For instance, when just hanging out with friends who are also into the scene, conversation turns that way and bam, somehow my friends are all tied up and I'm laughing maniacally.

or like recently, I was asked by a friend to do some rope work for photos he's taking.

or for a more serious bdsm scene that isn't going to involve sex.

:P

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #75 on: May 11, 2009, 02:13:33 pm »
See I'm afraid too tie somebody up. I see nothing good that could come of it with me.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #76 on: May 11, 2009, 02:35:14 pm »
Now introducing! *drum roll*

*cymbal crash* Pozf's Evil Side!

go ahead pozf...(damn there I go asking for more information when it hasn't been offered.)

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #77 on: May 11, 2009, 02:43:35 pm »
Well my I general mental stability is generally in check. I HAVE had a lapses in my stability. The last one was all a blur but,  I was in the junkyard shooting the BB gun at some cans one minute, the next minute I was smashing shit with the butt of the gun. Junk cars I think.

That being said if I have one while I'm near someone who is tied up? I somehow doubt that person will be alive. (Most likely dismembered some how) Now depending how this tied up situation occurred it might trigger a break (things that I'm not going to say). The chances are extremely minuscule that this would happen. But I'd rather NOT want to risk something like that happening.



Edit: what... to much?
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #78 on: May 11, 2009, 09:43:29 pm »
:P

Not for Akasha who has returned valiantly to save this thread and fight off what is soon to be insomnia for great justice! ./pose

It's good to be aware of these things and to know yourself, Pozf. So, maybe it might be best to get all of that dealt with or kept in check before thinking about attempting a scene. Thinking that, you're already ahead of everyone else who jumps out and tries to Dom without any forethought or understanding.

As I mentioned before, I think you need to find someone you trust completely. How ever long that may take.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #79 on: May 11, 2009, 09:55:32 pm »
Irony, you say?

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #80 on: May 11, 2009, 09:58:21 pm »
Not continue to beat down this thread in an off topic ... Rant? Personal exploration? ... But it's really not as simple as that. Like I've said in the past, trust is a problem. Now lets say I find someone I can trust to the extent I can. I'm freaking afraid I Will harm them period. I have self control, but just this back of mind fear...

Yea I'm gonna stop now before I explode crazy goo all over the place.

Sorry guys.

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Irony?? I miss it.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #81 on: May 11, 2009, 10:15:05 pm »
Hey Pozf,

Are you one of the dudes with low sex drive?  Cuz I'm just gonna go ahead and say that if you could vent that insane shit (even you yourself used the words "explode" and "goo") you'd probably have the libido of...someone who has epic libido.

I don't want to psychoanalyze you, but it sounds like you've got a lid on it, and if you pop off the lid, all kinds of other shit (lots of it Very Good) would come rushing out as well.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #82 on: May 11, 2009, 10:22:25 pm »
I don't mind the psychoanalysis, it's nice to hear other opinions.

As for the low sex drive, yea I probably do have a low sex drive, I never really think about it, albeit I do watch a fair amount of porn. It's possibly I have an epic sex drive... that... felt weird to type...
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #83 on: May 11, 2009, 10:28:00 pm »
I've never been one to trust people. Typically, people are awarded with my complete trust posthumously.

Make of that what you will.  ;)

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #84 on: May 11, 2009, 10:31:02 pm »
Well hindsight is 20/20...
but looking back it's still a bit fuzzy.
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #85 on: May 11, 2009, 10:42:28 pm »
well it's my opinion that everyone does if all their channels are flowing smoothly, and I've seen a lot of people become totally different people, or rather become themselves, just by blasting out some suppressed stuff.

but yeah I thought I remembered you talking about watching porn without...well without ...  well ahem anyway...y'know, and that seemed pretty foreign to me.

But anyway!!!

ninja'd: ah Keaoden...now it makes more sense.  Sit right here, this is now the psychoanalysis thread.

j/k sorry..unless you want to talk about it of course.  Mistress probably wouldn't mind.

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #86 on: May 11, 2009, 10:47:59 pm »
Aren't you the one with the green stars in this neck of the woods there Umber?

Although I do feel bad about the highjackery that has occurred. Maybe a psychoanalysis thread should be made?

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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #87 on: May 11, 2009, 10:50:56 pm »
yeah but



need I say more?
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #88 on: May 11, 2009, 10:52:26 pm »
... Touché
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Re: BDSM play
« Reply #89 on: May 11, 2009, 10:59:55 pm »
but yeah I wouldn't feel too bad about it.  Akasha is a kind and forgiving mistress, or at least she will be after she skewers our asses.

but would a psychoanalysis thread be good?  I wonder how to start it...

we could speak of mutually assured destruction and stuff :D