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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #210 on: July 21, 2010, 06:26:17 pm »
Only problem with those is they're going to have to last for some time (one rule breach is a serious one) and I've got a lot of stuff for her to do when I get home (pick me up, unpack, start laundry, fetch me lots of tea to keep me awake all day - stupid 8 hour overnight flights I can never sleep on - etc), not to mention I actually want to spend some time with her anyway.

And I'm in Greenfield, Indiana.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #211 on: July 22, 2010, 01:57:19 pm »
Well I survived  ;D It was only a gentle get to know you session no heavy stuff, but still got a slight sub-space buzz.
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« Reply #212 on: July 25, 2010, 06:47:33 pm »
Just as a general question.
Silk rope and leather.
Just how hard are these to find most places or is that something reserved for online purchases?

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How about scars?

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« Reply #213 on: July 26, 2010, 01:17:12 pm »


You should tie me up like that, Akasha.

I love marks.
How about scars?

Mmh, no, I don't generally like scars. Or well, it depends on where they are.
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« Reply #214 on: July 26, 2010, 02:18:04 pm »
not big on scarification, but I did see a really beautiful job done.... made to look like cherry blossoms. so there are exceptions to everything.

in regards to gear.....

rope of any kind is easy to find but I very highly suggest Twisted monk and madam butterfly for hemp or hand made silk ropes (or the silk bamboo mix, it's quite good and maintains antibacterial properties). But I love hemp rope too much and I love twisted monk's rope! both here:

http://twistedmonk.com/products.htm
http://twistedmonk.com/exotic.htm

for leather... it's usually better to buy in person. Hand check the quality. I have friends in different scenes down here that work in leather. And living in LA/consistent visits to sf make it really easy for me to obtain good leather at shops. So happy to have the pleasure chest down here. Where are you, Keaoden?

One thing I noticed was a lot of leather in the exhibition hall at anime expo. These people apparently go con to con selling stuff. While I saw plenty of crap, some of it was pretty good, all overpriced but at least you can check it in person.

otherwise, I can probably suggest subshop. http://www.sub-shop.com/

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #215 on: July 27, 2010, 02:55:30 am »
never used ropes or leather, did get tied down with industrial type luggage strops and rachets once  lol
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« Reply #216 on: July 27, 2010, 12:47:02 pm »
Nice, odd! I always love the creative solutions, they appeal to the hacker mindset ;P

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #217 on: July 27, 2010, 12:51:52 pm »
Thats the thing always wanted to try it but always avoided topping from the bottom by asking, just let who ever was Dom/meing me go with how they felt as long as it was with in my limits.
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« Reply #218 on: July 29, 2010, 08:19:48 am »
There's a difference between asking for it to be done to you and expressing the desire to try it. The first can be construed as topping from the bottom, the second one really isnt (depending on when you choose to do it of course).

I think that knowing what they would like to experience/try matters and is a useful thing to know. Doesnt mean you're going to do it for a variety or reasons, but something you should know and something you can always reward them with.


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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #219 on: July 29, 2010, 09:35:32 am »
Here's something I breifly covered with my First: how many of you Dominants out there had a submissive and put them in chastity/orgasim denial and how long did it last before allowing orgasims again?
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« Reply #220 on: July 29, 2010, 12:10:48 pm »
heheh, nice, Nightwraith.

I've done that, but I think the max was two weeks. ;P

As far as suggestions from the dom/sub go, I agree with Night, depending on you do it there's nothing wrong with expressing desire. I know pro doms that use checklists before hand, and there's usually some sort of communication / agreement to begin with where you can express that sort of thing as well.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #221 on: July 29, 2010, 12:16:20 pm »
after a few months break  the submissive feelings are starting to come back again. seeing this new Domme again on Tuesday and by the sounds of it She aint going to go easy on me this time lol
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« Reply #222 on: July 29, 2010, 01:24:06 pm »
Here's something I breifly covered with my First: how many of you Dominants out there had a submissive and put them in chastity/orgasim denial and how long did it last before allowing orgasims again?

The total time this time will be 3 weeks (the one week I was away + the 2 I gave as punishment), most I've done before has been a week (well 9 days).

If you want to be truly evil you make them have an orgasm every day for a few weeks before "shutting it off". (I know, some evil Dom did that to me once)

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #223 on: July 31, 2010, 06:59:26 pm »
I should really get involved in this.
I've recently stopped playing magic cards, so I need a new hobby?
Is Bondage expensive, typically?
I'm pretty poor.
Also, there has been some concern that a lot of BDSM scenes are really cliquish. I am pretty sensitive when it comes to being snubbed in social environments. Any advice on that?
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« Reply #224 on: July 31, 2010, 10:16:17 pm »
I should really get involved in this.
I've recently stopped playing magic cards, so I need a new hobby?
Is Bondage expensive, typically?
I'm pretty poor.

Well, as in anything you get what you pay for. I mean, theoretically you could just use a nice cheap roll of duct tape, right?

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Also, there has been some concern that a lot of BDSM scenes are really cliquish. I am pretty sensitive when it comes to being snubbed in social environments. Any advice on that?

Easy, but problematic solution: start your own.
More difficult, but better solution: Kidnap some BDSM folks against their will and force them to partake in your aforementioned self-started scene.

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« Reply #225 on: July 31, 2010, 11:05:32 pm »


Well, as in anything you get what you pay for. I mean, theoretically you could just use a nice cheap roll of duct tape, right?

I'm mostly just concerned about cover charges to get into fetish clubs and house parties and stuff like that. Do they typically serve alcohol? Alcohol can be really expensive.
As far as gear is concerned, I'm a bottom, so I don't think I need any gear.
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Easy, but problematic solution: start your own.
More difficult, but better solution: Kidnap some BDSM folks against their will and force them to partake in your aforementioned self-started scene.
Yes, because then it's not rape, just "consent free sex".  ::)
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« Reply #226 on: July 31, 2010, 11:30:19 pm »
I'm mostly just concerned about cover charges to get into fetish clubs and house parties and stuff like that. Do they typically serve alcohol? Alcohol can be really expensive.
As far as gear is concerned, I'm a bottom, so I don't think I need any gear.

Personally, I'd get some gear for yourself. Letting someone use their own gear on you is like letting some deal with their own cards in a poker game.

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Easy, but problematic solution: start your own.
More difficult, but better solution: Kidnap some BDSM folks against their will and force them to partake in your aforementioned self-started scene.

I never said force them into sex, I just said force them to be a part of your group.

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« Reply #227 on: August 01, 2010, 12:12:41 am »
So kidnapping is A-okay but rape is right out!   :P
So that glad you have standards, CrystalDragon.  :P
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #228 on: August 01, 2010, 09:05:02 am »
Most clubs/parties I know are bring your own booze Ronin. for cheap bondage get a packet of cable ties or some scarves. to see if there are any clubs near you look up munches on the net. its a good way of meeting others over a drink/meal.
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« Reply #229 on: August 01, 2010, 09:26:59 am »
Most clubs/parties I know are bring your own booze Ronin. for cheap bondage get a packet of cable ties or some scarves. to see if there are any clubs near you look up munches on the net. its a good way of meeting others over a drink/meal.
Well, That depends on the event.

Obviously for a home party - Like an tupperware party with leather and rubber cocks - You're most likely going to have to bring your own booze, if it's a drinking sort of thing.

For Munches, most commonly, they're held in bars, pubs, or the like, and you can most likely buy booze on site, but sometimes it's held in non-booze venues - I've seen them held in churches before, which was always a laugh - but most likely, it's a pub, front up the bar, grab your grog and go.

For Larger events, Such as the Skin Two Ball(first example that popped into my head, but I wouldn't recommend them except recommending to avoid them, they're elitist CUNTS and that sort of thing on the scene needs to die in a fucking fire) they generally have a bar of some sort set up, because it's a fantastic money spinner for the event. Drinks will vary in price, but they'll be there, 99% of the time.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #230 on: August 02, 2010, 04:54:39 am »
Akasha, I'm curious!

How do you handle the aftercare of your subs? Do you have a specific schedule or do you just hug and pat and send them on their way?
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« Reply #231 on: August 02, 2010, 09:16:38 am »
Akasha, I'm curious!

How do you handle the aftercare of your subs? Do you have a specific schedule or do you just hug and pat and send them on their way?


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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #232 on: August 02, 2010, 09:40:35 am »
CALLING NUMBER 57 YOUR TIME'S UP!!!!! (Dont worry Razzly just joking).  My First either let me curl up and listen to my MP3 player at her feet until I had come out of my subspace or just let me hold her hand while I had my eyes closed.
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« Reply #233 on: August 02, 2010, 10:24:16 am »
I will note that My old housemate - the Hambeast - Claims that she invented the term subspace(sorry, but no, you idiot, you're about twenty years too late, if not more) and used to constantly, now I just find the word annoying.

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« Reply #234 on: August 02, 2010, 12:43:06 pm »
CALLING NUMBER 57 YOUR TIME'S UP!!!!! (Dont worry Razzly just joking).  My First either let me curl up and listen to my MP3 player at her feet until I had come out of my subspace or just let me hold her hand while I had my eyes closed.

D:

No disrespect to your Lady but that doesn't sound like very much at all! (Compared to what others have told me.)
It certainly wouldn't be enough for me to just hold her hand.
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« Reply #235 on: August 02, 2010, 12:49:13 pm »
well that was just me cause well I'm...............Odd even just holding her hand gave me a some degree of being close. but every one needs diffrent levels of after care.
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« Reply #236 on: August 19, 2010, 06:24:36 pm »
Okay I am going to ask this again, even though I asked it before and everyone ignored me.

How often do bondage sessions include sex?
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« Reply #237 on: August 20, 2010, 07:45:52 am »
I don't know. Never been in one.
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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #238 on: August 20, 2010, 09:11:05 am »
It depends entirely on the participants. Some couples may have quite a lot others may have none.

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Re: Mistress Akasha's BDSM Playhouse
« Reply #239 on: August 20, 2010, 10:37:49 am »
Aye what he above me said.

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