I'm 24. And sure, still maybe sophisticated for my age. And don't worry, everyone thinks I'm much younger in person too.
Wasn't scared at all. My own predetermined desire for it as well as having some friends who were already active in the scene made things smooth and fun
It's neither of those, nor is it really the in between. At least out here in Los Angeles. There are very few greasy trolls in the places I go to. But it's not overly friendly either, in fact, you have to be somewhat forward or know someone. Kind of a closed off little world.
Now, in a completely different sense, I've been lucky in bed to meet and know people who were fun masochists.