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Hall of Games / Re: The COOL "Last Post Wins" Thread
« on: June 29, 2015, 01:43:43 am »
Really?
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: April 20, 2015, 01:01:36 am »
I have one other forum as a starting tab along with it's IRC channel, It's a Nation States region forum (Taijitu), I played that online game about 7-5years ago but has stayed in the forums because some of the people I got to know there became truly Close friends, a few of which I've met up with IRL and some that I hope to meet up with in the future. The atmosphere of these two forums is similiar in it's friendlyness and acceptance, making me feel at home <3
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: April 19, 2015, 06:50:15 am »
I've got this forum as one of my starting tabs 
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Hall of Games / Re: Guess who's next!
« on: April 01, 2015, 06:03:34 am »
No, ME!
And who is the ultimate goodness?
And who is the ultimate goodness?
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Free Talk / Re: The Sex Thread: AKA "What are you wearing right now? ;)" (NC-17)
« on: March 20, 2015, 09:09:22 am »
I'm not sure if completely naked would break the forum terms of service, but I hope it wouldn't O:)
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: March 19, 2015, 04:15:01 am »
Though I really like the actual final scene of Fury where he's shipped off home in an ambulance with a ten thousand miles stare.
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: March 08, 2015, 09:54:28 am »
As I said, pure pro-american propaganda.
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: March 08, 2015, 04:15:24 am »
I enjoyed Fury immensly from a psychological point of view allthough the realism (lack of) in the drawn out end-fight was more than a little over stretched and a slight dissapointment when the rest of the film was so good in that department, also the final scene gives a very good closing. I Think it should be mandatory in schools as a discussion topic to compare propaganda (Saving private ryan & blackhawk down comes to mind) vs realism.
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: February 28, 2015, 02:29:05 pm »
Well, I'm afraid there is no solving the issue with Odd as I won't kiss him, not even if he dresses up to look like a woman XD
And that's not really anything personal against him, it's just that I don't kiss men if I can choose not to.
But I'm quite easy when it comes to women, at least if they have a brain to match or overmatch my own and a kind heart
And that's not really anything personal against him, it's just that I don't kiss men if I can choose not to.
But I'm quite easy when it comes to women, at least if they have a brain to match or overmatch my own and a kind heart
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: February 28, 2015, 11:26:56 am »
ducky... you don't want to go there, seriously.... XS
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Free Talk / Re: The Sex Thread: AKA "What are you wearing right now? ;)" (NC-17)
« on: February 27, 2015, 11:33:24 pm »
Red t-shirt
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: February 26, 2015, 05:53:04 am »
*Empties a vat of alcoholic jelly over Odd*
There ya go, take it like the lap-dog you are
There ya go, take it like the lap-dog you are
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Hall of Games / Re: ...IN MY PANTS
« on: February 25, 2015, 01:19:56 pm »
I just got the heart of the swarm in my pants.
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: February 25, 2015, 01:18:57 pm »
ARRGH! BRIGHT LIGHT! BRIGHT LIGHT! *Shields Eyes red from long-time lurking*
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: October 09, 2014, 04:11:57 pm »
Oh, sorry, but now that you are here we can throw a bigger one!
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: October 08, 2014, 01:26:10 am »
Then the empty holsters would have to be kind of big to fit any potential gun
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Free Talk / Re: Shrink's sofa
« on: September 11, 2014, 01:51:54 pm »
Maybe couple's therapy then if you really want her close. I understand the kids complicates things, but if the relationship really doesn't work, I'd suggest you try negotiate shared custody and split.
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Free Talk / Re: Shrink's sofa
« on: September 11, 2014, 04:26:29 am »
I Think you should advise her to seek counseling for her insecurities...
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Free Talk / Re: Shrink's sofa
« on: September 02, 2014, 06:21:41 am »
A whole lot of sitting in the same room chatting over the internet?
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: August 15, 2014, 02:28:53 am »
well, you didn't miss much when it comes to the forums anyway. We are a few who are ghosting this Place and posting now and then but not much more.
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Hall of Games / Re: Guess who's next!
« on: July 14, 2014, 08:31:33 am »
Nope, but I'm all smiles at your corruption
Odd?
Odd?
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Free Talk / Re: Shrink's sofa
« on: July 10, 2014, 02:27:30 am »
For me, my social needs vary, some days, I get panic-level stress and angst from any physical presense within sight while text or skype/team speak interaction is comforting, especially while playing cooperative games.
Other days I don't know what to do without physical company, be it friendly or love doesn't matter because to me, the only difference is that a partner is a female friend that I can have sex with, it all depends on what kind of relation a given female friend wants. I love my male friends equally intensely, difference beeing I don't get sexually attracted to men.
Over all, I'd say I'm pretty social, I don't mind beeing alone and doo need it quite frequently, but I just can't handle lonelyness.
Other days I don't know what to do without physical company, be it friendly or love doesn't matter because to me, the only difference is that a partner is a female friend that I can have sex with, it all depends on what kind of relation a given female friend wants. I love my male friends equally intensely, difference beeing I don't get sexually attracted to men.
Over all, I'd say I'm pretty social, I don't mind beeing alone and doo need it quite frequently, but I just can't handle lonelyness.
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: July 09, 2014, 07:09:17 am »
By the way, what games do people in here play online?
For me, It's mostly World of Tanks, Civ5, Rome2/Shogun2 TW and Borderlands 2
For me, It's mostly World of Tanks, Civ5, Rome2/Shogun2 TW and Borderlands 2
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: July 09, 2014, 02:49:05 am »
Well, I Think you landed on your feet quite ok there. Clearly that guy has a LOT of maturing to do to be fit for any kind of comitted relationship.
While I don't agree completely with every sentence UIS wrote, the conclusion of his analysis is really sound advice. I myself think there is way too much reliance on suble hints and means of communication with hidden meaning and innuendos. For me, innuendos and hints can be fun for joking, but if something more than friendly banter is desired, clearly formulated unveiled communication is the way to go.
And don't hang up on conventions and social expectations when it comes to relationships. You and whoever you want is the ones that's going to live with eachother, so the only rules you need to stick to are the ones you make for yourselves, it makes things a lot easier than just accepting the 'common' definition. I'm polyamourous myself and only live in a monogamous relationship because neither me nor my partner has found another one to share our life with yet.
Happy hunting when the emotional bruises aren't hurting anymore
While I don't agree completely with every sentence UIS wrote, the conclusion of his analysis is really sound advice. I myself think there is way too much reliance on suble hints and means of communication with hidden meaning and innuendos. For me, innuendos and hints can be fun for joking, but if something more than friendly banter is desired, clearly formulated unveiled communication is the way to go.
And don't hang up on conventions and social expectations when it comes to relationships. You and whoever you want is the ones that's going to live with eachother, so the only rules you need to stick to are the ones you make for yourselves, it makes things a lot easier than just accepting the 'common' definition. I'm polyamourous myself and only live in a monogamous relationship because neither me nor my partner has found another one to share our life with yet.
Happy hunting when the emotional bruises aren't hurting anymore
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Free Talk / Re: Shrink's sofa
« on: July 09, 2014, 02:23:42 am »
Yeah, it is Deep, and really, there is no way to be happy if we keep catering to others to the extent that we extinguish ourselves. Sure, others are valuable, but unless we put ourselves as equal to or some times more worthy than others, we'll just end up miserable slaves to others without them even knowing it. They assume we do it willingly and without depleting ourselves just because we let them belive it by not speaking out when it costs us too much. We need to find that middle way, and that level of social favours and catering is unique to each and every one of us. Some simply can't socialize with anyone, some has to and feeds emotionally on the company of others. Most of us are on an infinite sliding scale in between. And I assume there are people who are on the side of it all and just defy definition alltogether.
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: July 02, 2014, 06:25:29 am »
If he thought you were that close he shouldn't have been an arse in the first place... and definitely shouldn't even try guilt-tripping you for beeing upset about it.
I guess a lot of the feelings depends on what type of conversation you were having.
Also, does he know you have feelings for him and what kind of feelings, because if he don't he won't be able to treat your, atm. friendly relationship, in a way that makes sense since he won't have all the facts.
And finally, as soon as a partner tries to limit who you spend time or interact with, It's high time to drop that partner like a hot potato, because to me that means the partner isn't really interested in me as a person but only the way I fulfill her need for someone to parade about as an accessory.
*Glomps and huggles*
(I'm Erik on skype btw.)
I guess a lot of the feelings depends on what type of conversation you were having.
Also, does he know you have feelings for him and what kind of feelings, because if he don't he won't be able to treat your, atm. friendly relationship, in a way that makes sense since he won't have all the facts.
And finally, as soon as a partner tries to limit who you spend time or interact with, It's high time to drop that partner like a hot potato, because to me that means the partner isn't really interested in me as a person but only the way I fulfill her need for someone to parade about as an accessory.
*Glomps and huggles*
(I'm Erik on skype btw.)
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Free Talk / Re: The Chat Thread
« on: June 30, 2014, 04:45:33 pm »
Oh Odd, you flatterer But yes, I do notice things that can be corrupted 
And ducky, please don't be a stranger (I'm not sure but I Think I might even have you added on skype if you use the same avatar as in here)
But yes, I do notice things that can be corrupted And ducky, please don't be a stranger
(I'm not sure but I Think I might even have you added on skype if you use the same avatar as in here)
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Free Talk / Re: Shrink's sofa
« on: June 28, 2014, 01:28:10 am »
I do live with my partner since three and a half years back now. And A psychologist could be a very good idea. Something that actually helped me a lot was submitting myself to a shamanistic healing session, even though I don't belive in spiritualism, it really felt as if I left as a whole person where before I had felt like a lost lonely entity in a vast void of my own mind.
That was about a year ago. I still have all the practical and emotional problems of Life but I am able to view them in a different light and have it easier to see the ways around or sollutions to any given situation in a way I couldn't Before.
On the downside, something that's also positive in a sense is that I now have a lot of angst regarding certain types of choises. Before I had avoided that specific angst by just picking what I percived as the expected choise and got a different kind of angst when it ended up wrong in some way no matter what and I was accused of lying...
Now I get angst since my unconcious see the choise as a trap and refuses to decide at all and locking me up mentally instead.
That was about a year ago. I still have all the practical and emotional problems of Life but I am able to view them in a different light and have it easier to see the ways around or sollutions to any given situation in a way I couldn't Before.
On the downside, something that's also positive in a sense is that I now have a lot of angst regarding certain types of choises. Before I had avoided that specific angst by just picking what I percived as the expected choise and got a different kind of angst when it ended up wrong in some way no matter what and I was accused of lying...
Now I get angst since my unconcious see the choise as a trap and refuses to decide at all and locking me up mentally instead.